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Now What · Free toolkit · Topic 01

Should I stay,
or should I go?

A practical toolkit for the woman sitting with the hardest decision of her life. Tick what's true. See what the picture is telling you.

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What's inside
5 sections · 49 checkpoints
State-by-state info
  • Rough patch, or something more?10 checkpoints
  • The slow erosion, emotional abandonment8 checkpoints
  • Is this control? Naming what's happening9 checkpoints
  • The "staying for the kids" reality check6 checkpoints
  • What to quietly gather, before any conversation starts16 checkpoints